Our prayer meetings were sparsely attended 20 years ago, and they're sparsely attended now.
The reasons I keep hearing for not coming are "I'm too busy"...."We hate to bring our young kids to that, because they misbehave, and we can't always get a baby sitter"...."I'm too tired after working all day"...."I come to church on sabbath, isn't that enough?"....and on and on.
Yet the people who do manage to make it to prayer meeting seem to be able to do it week after week, month after month, in spite of all these seemingly 'huge' obstacles that keep others away.
Ellen White wrote,
"A prayer-meeting will always tell the true interest of the churchmembers in spiritual and eternal things. The prayer-meeting is as the pulse to the body; it denotes the true spiritual condition of the church. A lifeless, backslidden church has no relish for the prayermeetings."
{Pamphlet 152 p. 7 para. 1} (1897)
"The empty seats in our prayer meetings testify that Christians do not realize the claims of God upon them; they do not realize their duty to make these meetings interesting and successful. They go over a monotonous, wearisome round, and return home unrefreshed, unblessed."
{GW92 427.5}
"Prayer meetings are neglected, while concerts, singing schools, and various entertainments are faithfully patronized. 'It's only a prayer meeting,' is often repeated by church members; I can not call them Christians. [Wow!] Exciting popular lectures will interest the church members and call them out, when the prayer meeting has no attraction for them. This reveals the true spiritual condition of the church. God is not pleased with this state of things. Spiritual and eternal things are not appreciated, while temporal matters are exalted above things of eternal interest."
{Pamphlet 152 p. 6 para. 2} (1897)
"Those who are really seeking for communion with God, will be seen in the prayer-meeting, faithful to do their duty, and earnest and anxious to reap all the benefits they can gain. They will improve every opportunity of placing themselves where they can receive the rays of light from heaven."
{The Southern Review 06-25-03 para. 05}
So it appears that the main reason for lack of attendance at the midweek meeting is the listless, Laodicean condition of the church at present. And that's a shame.
I find that the Wednesday night prayer meeting, or the Friday night Bible study we have here, can be as as great a blessing as the regular sabbath services. Greater, in some respects. Why is that, you might ask? It's because at these extra meetings, the people in attendance are normally those who are seeking the Lord with greater fervor than many of those who show up for the regular weekly services. There's more opportunity for interaction between people, more chance to speak up about what you think or to ask questions, and to hear a variety of other people's ideas. To find out more about their particular needs, so we can pray about them more particularly. That doesn't happen as much in sabbath school and church.
These meetings other than sabbath services help me to 'keep the battery charged' throughout the week, and to get better acquainted with members of our church family. I hope the time never comes (this side of the Time of Trouble) when we don't have them, or when I feel no need to go.