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Our One Flesh Needs Prayer. #18088
08/22/01 07:15 PM
08/22/01 07:15 PM
M
M7Henry  Offline OP
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Joined: Sep 2000
Posts: 18
Sycamore,IL USA
At the beginning of August. She declared that she needed space and privacy.

We are living separately in the same place. Physically, Mentally, Emotionally, Spiritually. She handles all the money and has stopped returning to the Lord in what is His. Most of the time, when I mention God, either God or I and sometimes both, get slandered. She is pretty much in control of the whole thing now ( My opinion does not count anymore.).

She had an affair 3 months ago. I think the guilt is weighing her down. ( I begged her to let me back into her life at the end of the affair. ) Her Grandparents and Parents both went through divorces because of affairs. I am beginning to realize, she does not trust ( tolerate, yes; trust, no ) men at all. She has a women boss and all, but one women co-workers.

She saw a secular counselor ( a women ), last night. She did not want to talk about it. So I let her have her space. Pray that God will use her women counselor according to His will.

We need Prayer for her recovery/healing and my peace of mind, strength, patience, Love for Her in our time of crisis.

It's amazing what goes through my mind, with the rejection and doubt, because of her problems ( And mine, I know I'm not perfect either. ). And I thought I was a Christian ( Still am, but all this other stuff comes from you know who. ). I need strength not to give in, when my personal needs are not being met in our marriage covenant of 23 years.

She is going through Menopause and a Mid-Life Crisis rolled up in one big dose.

Thank You, for your Prayers!

Yours in Christ, Michael


Re: Our One Flesh Needs Prayer. #18089
08/22/01 08:28 PM
08/22/01 08:28 PM
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Chantale Bérubé  Offline
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Joined: Jul 2001
Posts: 172
Fredericton, NB, Canada
Hi,
I just wanted to let you know, you and your wife will be in my prayers.
I just wanted to let you know.
Trusts God, he has a plan, he is with us at all times.
I'll keep you in my prayers,
Chantale Berube

Re: Our One Flesh Needs Prayer. #18090
08/23/01 02:47 PM
08/23/01 02:47 PM
Sarah Moss  Offline
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Joined: Jan 2010
Posts: 1,194
Alberta, Canada
Michael, my prayers are also with you, your wife and your marriage. I know that God is weeping with you as you struggle through this very difficult time!!

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Sarah Moss
Psalms 103 - I am blessed!


Re: Our One Flesh Needs Prayer. #18091
08/23/01 08:59 PM
08/23/01 08:59 PM
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M7Henry  Offline OP
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Joined: Sep 2000
Posts: 18
Sycamore,IL USA
Dear Chantale & Sarah,

Thank you so much for Praying for Our One Flesh. For I know, that we both need it.

I experienced a wonderful outpouring of Grace last night while struggling with God in prayer. And my soul was calmed in the storm of emotionally turmoil. While I will still pray that the storm does not tear down a 23 year marriage. I now know first hand, how I will finish this trial, by God's Grace.

I could barely believe it, I had main prayer during service, by the end of the prayer, I was crying ( My wife did not attend church this last Sabbath and has chosen to skip a lot of them over the last 8 months. ).

Thank you for your prayers!
Michael


Re: Our One Flesh Needs Prayer. #18092
08/28/01 05:47 PM
08/28/01 05:47 PM
M
M7Henry  Offline OP
Posting New Member
Joined: Sep 2000
Posts: 18
Sycamore,IL USA
She asked me to leave the condo. It's her parents that are the landlords. It does not matter if am the innocent party or not. Children cried and cried, and so did I.

Lord, we need healing from you.

Yours in Christ, Michael


Re: Our One Flesh Needs Prayer. #18093
08/28/01 09:05 PM
08/28/01 09:05 PM
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Chantale Bérubé  Offline
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Joined: Jul 2001
Posts: 172
Fredericton, NB, Canada
I'm so sorry. I know about broken families. I had to go through lots of stuff with my mom and her husband, i pray that God be with you all at this difficult time. Please remember that one day there will be no more broken hearted!
Your in my prayers.
God be with you,
a friend,
Chantale
P.S>remember this, Satan will do anything to discourage us as christians. We need to have Faith in Jesus, here on earth is not our home. Jesus is coming SooN!

Re: Our One Flesh Needs Prayer. #18094
09/05/01 04:50 PM
09/05/01 04:50 PM
M
M7Henry  Offline OP
Posting New Member
Joined: Sep 2000
Posts: 18
Sycamore,IL USA
Last Friday, She met me with her parents. She asked for a divorce. This caught her parents off guard, because she was seeing the lawyer for separation. Maybe all those jokes, aren't to far off? And came back with a divorce.

Well, This shocked her mother. And her mother got her to postpone it until some more counseling can be done. Her step-father and mother both apologized to me, because my wife did not consult them before telling me the news.

She is going to change counselors. She told her mother, it's because of the distance. She told me nothing ( I found out from her mother. ). When I shared this with another couple that had gone through some troubles earlier, they seem to think that she did not get the response from the counselor that she wanted. I feel it's to drop counseling all together.

She is proceeding to prepare for the divorce, as if nothing was going to stop her.

I asked her about what her faith ( She is an SDA. ) tells her about divorce. She replies that it's none of my business.

She is divorcing God and Husband in one quick move. Pray for my One Flesh. Because this is so painful for me. She is ignoring the Pastor, Her Mother, The Kids and me.

God Bless you all for your prayers,
Michael


Re: Our One Flesh Needs Prayer. #18095
09/05/01 08:44 PM
09/05/01 08:44 PM
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Chantale Bérubé  Offline
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Joined: Jul 2001
Posts: 172
Fredericton, NB, Canada
hey...
I'm really sorry about everything that's going on.. It's terrible... Remember to stay really close to God especialy right now! I'm still praying for you. I'll be at prayer meeting tonight and will pray for you, her, the kids and your families...
Don't let anything discourage you. Satan is trying soo hard to discourage Christians. He will use anyone he can:That's everybody!!!
So, take care of yourself,
JESUS IS COMING SOON~~!!!
Chantale

Re: Our One Flesh Needs Prayer. #18096
09/06/01 12:19 PM
09/06/01 12:19 PM
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Angie S  Offline
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Full Member
Joined: Jul 2000
Posts: 121
Benton Harbor, MI USA
I wanted to let you know that I will be praying for you. It is not easy to be without the one you love. But, I pray that God will keep you safe through this trial. May God richly bless your marriage and I pray He will bring your wife back to you and draw her closer to Him, as well.

God bless!

Angie

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Blessed is he... whose hope is in the
Lord his God. Psalms 146:5

Angie


Re: Our One Flesh Needs Prayer. #18097
09/06/01 05:37 PM
09/06/01 05:37 PM
M
M7Henry  Offline OP
Posting New Member
Joined: Sep 2000
Posts: 18
Sycamore,IL USA
Thank you All for your expressions of love and support.

Lord, we need healing from you.

Yours in Christ, Michael


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