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How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19435
04/18/01 08:19 PM
04/18/01 08:19 PM
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I need your help before the next Sabbath School Council meeting. There are many in my church who habitually occupy the last pews in our Sanctuary. It's not too bad a problem during the divine service where the pews are pretty much filled, but in Sabbath School (where low attendance is already a problem) the few that come like to stay scattered. When asked to come forward, most come--but they soon go back to old habits. I, myself, am just happy that people are coming to church. However, comments like "those who sit near the back are just not interested (or part of the way out of the church already)" are floating around. Can someone come up with a tactful method of 1. Making people come near the front or 2. Getting others focused on more important matters than where other worshipers are sitting. Is this a problem in other churches? If I sit near the back it is to get a full view of the fellowship and experience "everything"--not to be disrespectful to the minister or to spend my time chatting. ------------------ Be glad for all God is planning for you. Be patient in trouble, and always be prayerful. Rom. 12:12 NLT
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19436
04/18/01 11:11 PM
04/18/01 11:11 PM
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We solved that problem by having our Sabbath School class at the back of the church, therefore, after the Sabbath School Superintendent's program, we are asked to move to the back of the sanctuary for the Adult Sabbath School Lesson Study. __________________________ In His Love, Mercy & Grace Daryl
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19437
04/19/01 01:16 PM
04/19/01 01:16 PM
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I sit at the back because it causes less disturbance when I have to get up and leave the sanctuary. Also, as part of my Deacon's duties, I take up the offering, so, it is easier to sit in the back so as not to disturb others when I get up. In our SS time, we break up into small groups and meet in different places, that takes care of scattered participants.
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19440
04/19/01 09:12 PM
04/19/01 09:12 PM
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Thanks for your suggestions so far. I'm going to bring them to our next Sabbath School meeting. I remember learning that each person is either tacitile, aural or visual. Those who are "touchy feely" tacitile types like to sit at the front. Those who like to see the service sit near the middle (best view of the worship experience--like the middle seats of a theatre) and aural people who want to hear the message (and like to talk) tend to be more at the back. I tested this theory once by asking questions of those who I know sit in certain areas and listening to the words that they used. The theory seemed to be correct! This leads me to the question: Are most SDA's aural? ------------------ Be glad for all God is planning for you. Be patient in trouble, and always be prayerful. Rom. 12:12 NLT
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19441
04/19/01 11:04 PM
04/19/01 11:04 PM
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Can't speak for anyone else, but if I don't sit in the back, I can't hear anything. I like to hear so I sit there.
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19442
04/20/01 01:54 AM
04/20/01 01:54 AM
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Didn't Ellen G. White say something somewhere about the fact that if we all sit at the back, then the evil angels will sit in the front pews and grab the words from the pulpit so that they can't enter into the hearts of the hearers? __________________________ In His Love, Mercy & Grace Daryl
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19443
04/20/01 10:12 AM
04/20/01 10:12 AM
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I think it's in the testimonies somewhere. I do not get the right wording so the search engine does not pull it up. But I have read such a type statement too. ------------------ Edward F Sutton
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19444
04/20/01 02:43 PM
04/20/01 02:43 PM
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I guess motive plays into this too. Remember the story in Luke 12 where a man pushed himself to the front only because he wanted Jesus to get his brother to divide his inheritance with him? If you look in Christ's Object Lessons, it makes it clear that even though the man was "up front," he wasn't listening. What was in his heart (lust for money) blocked his reception more than his physical distance from Christ. Now, for more practical matters: I'd love to get my hands on Daryl's quote and read it to the congregation!!! Mrs. White personally knew the man who started the Chatham SDA church (William Ward Simpson) and mentioned him as Brother S. in her book "Evangelism." Whatever she says I believe has direct influence on our congregation. ------------------ Be glad for all God is planning for you. Be patient in trouble, and always be prayerful. Rom. 12:12 NLT [This message has been edited by Andrew Marttinen (edited April 20, 2001).]
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19445
04/20/01 04:12 PM
04/20/01 04:12 PM
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quote: Asked by Andrew Marttinen: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
Fill up the back? (Sorry, I couldn't resist )[This message has been edited by me again (edited April 20, 2001).]
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19446
04/20/01 06:52 PM
04/20/01 06:52 PM
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It reminds me of the comedian who said, "I like big crowds--lots of people come to a place where there's a big crowd." ------------------ Be glad for all God is planning for you. Be patient in trouble, and always be prayerful. Rom. 12:12 NLT
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19447
04/21/01 02:07 AM
04/21/01 02:07 AM
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I sit in the very back of the sanctuary because that's where I opperate the sound system. I've actually found that sound is louder in the back than in the middle, so people sometimes complain that it's too quiet where they are. It's pretty easy to get me to move closer to the front. Just have someone else do the sound.
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19448
04/23/01 01:16 AM
04/23/01 01:16 AM
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in our church we had the exact same problem. We had a unique way of doing away with it, instead of pews we have chairs in our church and every friday some of the chairs get placed in a rectangle, size doesn't permit cercles. and that is where we go. in your church, maybe you can either have folding chairs set up and everyone take them down or have some creative markers set up arround the pews. if nothing else works WE ARE ADVENTIST, use some little debbies under the seats you want them to sit in:}
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19449
04/23/01 02:15 PM
04/23/01 02:15 PM
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Someone put it this way: At a feast everyone wants to get close to the food! Hopefully there's more than "sweet nothings" up front in our worship services! ------------------ Be glad for all God is planning for you. Be patient in trouble, and always be prayerful. Rom. 12:12 NLT
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19450
05/12/01 05:23 AM
05/12/01 05:23 AM
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Just talk soft and turn down the PA system. Probably still wouldn't work.
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19451
05/12/01 09:09 AM
05/12/01 09:09 AM
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"Pew what a problem"From back pews to front pews : a local Church symptom of a bigger problem that manifests in scattered pew sitters and too much room to choose from among the mostly empty pews. Idea: The Pastor & Church Board & Church officers meet and build a workable plan to change the concept of Church from inactive ("Laissez faire"); to "if we don't do it , it won't get done." If the pastor has only assisted with public evangelism and never brought people into the Church by his personal efforts co-operating with God, the pastor gets material from places like the Canadian office of "The Quiet Hour" & training from someone like Pastor Roy West & the Quiet Hour materials & become trained specifically one on one to personally bring individuals and families into the Church through Jesus and their personal efforts - then teach what they learn. After an NAD Survey 80% of SDA Pastors had never personally brought anyone into the Church through Jesus and their personal efforts. You can not teach what you do not know. Then starting with: Rope off back pews 3-4 rows for parents with small children. The next 3-4 rows for members who did not invite & did not bring visitors or people they are studying with them,that day. The front section is roped off for members who have invited & brought visitors that day. For members who are studying with folks and have invited them and / or are bringing them that day. (Preferably have brought them that day. Arranged child care @ Church & visitors menu driven potluck and an introductory meeting with another SDA family or families {that are pre-prepared for this introductory meeting to form Bible based friendships with the visiting family or families.) Both the SDA family that brings folks and the ones forming friendships are all doing a workshop with common planning to stay on the same page & help each other's agenda. A deadline is given the local church with specific goals. Such as (example of what I mean.) 13 weeks to fill the front section under the above conditions. After that date,if the front stays empty, the pastor starts dropping one or two preaching Sabbaths a month from that local church and replaces it with home visitations and training local Church officers & their spouses {that he selects to go with him & his wife as they visit the local members on an ongoing basis to uncover what's wrong, teach the members how to receive Jesus personally & how to work for souls personally. The local Church officers pick up the slack on local preaching & teaching. The ones who refuse to work for souls especially get worked with to uncover objections and excuses. Objections are an honest statement that if the problems were solved, they would do whatever they were currently objecting to. Excuses are deceptive attempts to get out of whatever it is and they don't intend to do it anyway. Removing the excuse just calls for more excuses to be given. Pastoral visitations will find stubborn unrecantable problems, that will have to be dealt with, that may require Church Board & Church Body votes. When irreconcilable log jams are cleared away growth will return & God will wake up and help all the honest, be they limited, or multi-talented, quick, or slow, young or old, rich or poor. All the willing He will help. All the pews will fill & keep the sectioning setup to reward the busy members, accommodate the parents with children with special needs, and set goals and rewards for the members who would if some would personally help them to. Train other local members to do that with them and help them, till they can inturn help others. Pastors talk it over with your boards & officers & see if agreement can be reached ? Goals must have rewards for being met & consequences for being missed. A support system to enforce rewards and consequences must be in place and functioning and all on the same page prior to announcing it. The front pews are lonely and cold and the need warm active searching people to be there with their repentant tears and hopeful prayers and grateful amen's. The middle pews are feeling confused because so many sit for a while and move around so much. Their behinds reflect the temperature of their spiritual thermostats and the pews are catching the flu from the chill. The back pews have arthritis and cry for relief because so many big people sit on them so much it is killing them. The little kids are so much lighter and smile so much more. The back pews miss their bright little faces and honest trusting questions. ------------------ Edward F Sutton
[This message has been edited by Edward F Sutton (edited May 12, 2001).]
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19452
05/12/01 11:41 AM
05/12/01 11:41 AM
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Sounds good on paper, we tried that and it didn't work, we never do it that way, we can't afford to do that, ... ever hear these? You have some real good ideas here. I think I'll plagerize [ ] them and share with the next board meeting. ------------------ Examine me, O LORD, and prove me: try my reins and my heart. Ps.26:2 It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in men.Ps.118:8
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19453
05/12/01 02:56 PM
05/12/01 02:56 PM
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What's this whole roping off bit? I can understand for families, but the rest? Hmm... Just understand: not a lot of people enjoying getting up on time to make it to Sabbath School. Maybe you should have the sermon first?
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19454
05/12/01 07:52 PM
05/12/01 07:52 PM
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Jason, Consider it a system of making it a desirable thing that gets approval to qualify to sit in the "first class " seats instead of "coach" and working in the homes to help things there. Enjoy your cricket . Gerry, Copy all you want, if they favorably respond and church gets more members qualifying for upfront, let me know. PS. You could always bribe the church grandmas by saying they could cuddle your grandbabies (but their husbands & kids had to invite visitors and they & the visitors had to sit up front so they could qualify. Put a time limit on um and pass the kids down the row.) ------------------ Edward F Sutton [This message has been edited by Edward F Sutton (edited May 12, 2001).]
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19455
05/13/01 12:54 AM
05/13/01 12:54 AM
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My youngest grandchild [Dave] had his dedication today. The Alpena cxhurch has a lot of young children, and they allk sit towards the back with their parents. Worked real well. ------------------ Examine me, O LORD, and prove me: try my reins and my heart. Ps.26:2 It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in men.Ps.118:8
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19456
01/11/02 11:05 PM
01/11/02 11:05 PM
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Just a few days ago we were talking about people not sitting at the front and this EGW quote came to mind again. The problem is, nobody can seem to find it. I did a word search without success. When I have more time I am going to do another more exhaustive search.
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19457
01/12/02 01:07 AM
01/12/02 01:07 AM
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For me its to reminiscent of being in college. The closer to the speaker you are, the more apt you are to get called to the board. Amelia
P.S. I only sit 3 rows back, so thats almost in front. Isnt it?
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19458
01/12/02 09:19 AM
01/12/02 09:19 AM
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Amelia Have you tried setting out plates of cookies? That should get them moving.
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19459
01/12/02 09:21 AM
01/12/02 09:21 AM
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Daryl or Ed Any idea on where that quote is that you mentioned re sitting in the back pews?
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19460
01/13/02 02:19 AM
01/13/02 02:19 AM
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When I was a SS Superintendent, I was also a senior SS teacher. At times when there were special camps (we had a small local camping area), the chuch would have only 50 or so adults attending SS (from a membership of about 350). They would park themselves in the same places they always sat, and for the program, that was okay, because we had a sound system. But we'd have a combined SS class, and I would simply call them to sit in the front seats. I would teach the class from floor level, and it worked well. People like to start out where they plan to sit for the service, and for various reasons - children, health, etc, they need to be near the entrance. Others - and some of the youth feel this way - don't want to be visible by the whole church. It's sometimes self-consciousness. Some emotional people like to be able to slip away without disrupting things. But hymn books are great "placesavers", and I think you can call folk forward whenever you feel it's necessary. They move grudgingly, but they move if it's done pleasantly.
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19461
01/25/02 04:46 AM
01/25/02 04:46 AM
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Without the correct wording the search engine in SOP does not know what to look for. Being a soundsystem person my self, i could suggest turning down the sound on the michs & repositioning speakers to direct sound more toward the front of the church instead of projecting it into such a large comfort area & talking softer (unless the people actually want to ignore sermons & pulpit activity anyhow.) But it seems a better solution to fill the church with loads of new families & babies and save the back 1/3 of the pews for parents with very small children & provide those parents (and interested kids) an ear phone with a reciver pack to hear by comfortably from back there while you creativly manipulate the sound system to "encourage" more upfront closeness.
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Re: How do you get people to move to the front of the Sanctuary?
#19462
01/28/02 07:00 PM
01/28/02 07:00 PM
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I recently returned from an Ignite Canada rally in Oshawa. Their church uses a system of placing sticks on the ends of pews that people aren't supposed to sit in. All the side pews and the back ones were closed off. This did not prevent some from thinking and acting "outside the box." I commented to a church member who was there about what the penalty would be for removing a stick and sitting down. She smiled and said that here family had been brave enough to do it--marched right into the cordened-off row. I guess they got used to sitting at a certain place in our local church... About sound systems--the College Park church has speakers at the back of the main sanctuary. My dad (who attends there) says that the rear is the best place to hear a sermon legibly for those who are older or who have trouble with the accent of the preacher.
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