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Re: Worship & Clothing
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12/18/00 11:41 PM
12/18/00 11:41 PM
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History of the tie in brief -- evolved from the ascot worn in the 19th century. I'll get more on it later, but we don't want a repeat of what happened to this subject as occurred on the old forum (which had me ROFL). David, a couple of suggestions: In winter at least, you could wear turtlenecks which can be worn without a necktie. I, for one, have always thought they look dashing and even elegant. White or black looks great with a suit. Try it on first to make sure the neck is loose enough for comfort. Another thing you could do is to wear the pretied ties that clip on if you don't already. They don't bind nearly as much. Of course, you are having to loosen the neck band, that won't work. You can get extenders for the neck band in any good fabric store. They are a small strip with a button on one end and a buttonhole on the other end. This will expand the neck opening by about 3/4 of an inch or more while keeping the collar band buttoned. ------------------ ________________________ Even so come, Lord Jesus Linda[This message has been edited by Linda Sutton (edited December 18, 2000).]
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Re: Worship & Clothing
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12/19/00 02:10 AM
12/19/00 02:10 AM
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I ask the question about the tie to see why the tie has become such an integral part of our church attire seeing that the tie is a 19th century invention. I wear a tie myself, however, I wonder why we make such a big deal of it, myself included. _________________________ It is more blessed to give than to receive. (Acts 20:35) Daryl [This message has been edited by Daryl Fawcett (edited December 18, 2000).]
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Re: Worship & Clothing
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12/19/00 02:43 AM
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After my daughter's house burned the first time, all of the clothing she had left was a few pairs of jeans and some casual shirts. She didn't even have any clothing fit for work, and had to borrow a dress and shoes for her cousin's wedding a few weeks later. She went to church in jeans until she was able to acquire a dress. That was much better than not going to church at all! But to avoid people who might criticize her, she walked in late, sat in the back, and left before the last hymn was over. ------------------ The Lord is the strength of my life and my portion forever.
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Re: Worship & Clothing
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12/19/00 03:03 AM
12/19/00 03:03 AM
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We should never be quick to criticize nor to judge. We should quietly and carefully obtain the facts first. My concern is about those who obviously are wearing their second hand clothes. Most times I wear a suit to church, however, there are times when I wear dress pants with a shirt and tie. I never wear jeans to church, however, I would if caught in a situation where that is all I had to wear that particular Sabbath like the situation you just described. _________________________ It is more blessed to give than to receive. (Acts 20:35) Daryl
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Re: Worship & Clothing
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12/19/00 02:12 PM
12/19/00 02:12 PM
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Once I saw a picture of a very elegant Indonesian or African suit, no neck tie and I wish I could relocate the picture. Would love to have such a suit, wish I could post a picture but no such luck ------------------ Edward F Sutton
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Re: Worship & Clothing
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01/20/01 01:21 AM
01/20/01 01:21 AM
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I think we should dress ourselves according to the area we live in. I think it would be out of place to wear my old Korean costume here in America to attend church no matter how nice the cloth is. I have seen some people who wore Sabbath attire as they wore in their mission field hot days. I think this is out of place. If our regional custom is to wear tie and dress up to go to a respectable place we should do it accordingly to go to the House of Our God. Would I wear a sport shirt and jean to attend a function at the White House? Of course not, is attending worship service of our heavenly father less respectful than the president of this country? You decide! Won
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Re: Worship & Clothing
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01/20/01 08:03 PM
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There is a song that says "give of your best to the Master". We sometimes get so busy fsalling over pebbles, we don't even notice the rocks. Clean, neat, well taken care of, etc. Jesus had only one [1] robe, He wore it every day, including sabbath. The point I'm trying to make is this, if it is the best you have, wear it. I really don't think God is going to keep you out of heaven because you didn't wear a suit and tie to worship services on Sabbath. He isn't such a tyrant that He would step on you becauser you have a medical condition that prevents you from wearing certain articles of clothing. I'm not talking about immodest dress, the word of God is very clear about that, it ought not to be worn. I'm afraid that if we harp o dress to much, sabbath would become a time of fashion shows. So, where do we draw the line? ------------------ What is popular is not always right. What is right is not always popular.
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Re: Worship & Clothing
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01/20/01 10:38 PM
01/20/01 10:38 PM
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Daryl,You asked for it and here it is--the history of the necktie swiped from a website that it would not do to put in the appropriate web sites forum. It is a little lengthy, but I'm posting it in one post rather than breaking it up. ________________________ Even so come, Lord Jesus Linda ______________________________________________________________HISTORY OF NECKWEAR by Alan Flusser The history of neckties dates back a mere hundred years or so, for they came into existence as the direct result of a war. In 1660, in celebration of its hard-fought victory over the Ottoman Empire, a crack regiment from Croatia (then part of the Austro-Hungarian Empire), visited Paris. There, the soldiers were presented as glorious heroes to Louis XIV, a monarch well known for his eye toward personal adornment. It so happened that the officers of this regiment were wearing brightly colored handkerchiefs fashioned of silk around their necks. These neck cloths, which probably descended from the Roman fascalia worn by orators to warm the vocal chords, struck the fancy of the king, and he soon made them an insignia of royalty as he created a regiment of Royal Cravattes. The word "cravat," incidentally, is derived from the word "Croat." It wasn't long before this new style crossed the channel to England. Soon no gentleman would have considered himself well-dressed without sporting some sort of cloth around his neck--the more decorative, the better. At times, cravats were worn so high that a man could not move his head without turning his whole body. There were even reports of cravats worn so thick that they stopped sword thrusts. The various styles knew no bounds, as cravats of tasseled strings, plaid scarves, tufts and bows of ribbon, lace, and embroidered linen all had their staunch adherents. Nearly one hundred different knots were recognized, and as a certain M. Le Blanc, who instructed men in the fine and sometimes complex art of tying a tie, noted, "The grossest insult that can be offered to a man comme il faut is to seize him by the cravat; in this place blood only can wash out the stain upon the honor of either party." In this country, ties were also an integral part of a man's wardrobe. However, until the time of the Civil War, most ties were imported from the Continent. Gradually, though, the industry gained ground, to the point that at the beginning of the twentieth century, American neckwear finally began to rival that of Europe, despite the fact that European fabrics were still being heavily imported. In the 1960s, in the midst of the Peacock Revolution, there was a definite lapse in the inclination of men to wear ties, as a result of the rebellion against both tradition and the formality of dress. But by the mid-1970s, this trend had reversed itself to the point where now, in the 1990s, the sale of neckwear is probably as strong if not stronger than it has ever been. How to account for the continued popularity of neckties? For years, fashion historians and sociologists predicted their demise--the one element of a man's attire with no obvious function. Perhaps they are merely part of an inherited tradition. As long as world and business leaders continue to wear ties, the young executives will follow suit and ties will remain a key to the boardroom. On the other hand, there does seem to be some aesthetic value in wearing a tie. In addition to covering the buttons of the shirt and giving emphasis to the verticality of a man's body (in much the same way that the buttons on a military uniform do), it adds a sense of luxury and richness, color and texture, to the austerity of the dress shirt and business suit. Perhaps no other item of a man's wardrobe has altered its shape so often as the tie. It seems that the first question fashion writers always ask is, "Will men's ties be wider or narrower this year?" In the late 1960s and early 70s, ties grew to five inches in width. At the time, the rationale was that these wide ties were in proportion to the wider jacket lapels and longer shirt collars. This was the correct approach, since these elements should always be in balance. But once these exaggerated proportions were discarded, fat ties became another victim of fashion. The proper width of a tie, and one that will never be out of style, is 3 1/4 inches (2 3/4 to 3 1/2 inches are also acceptable). As long as the proportions of men's clothing remain true to a man's body shape, this width will set the proper balance. Though many of the neckties sold today are cut in these widths, the section of the tie where the knot is made has remained thick--a holdover from the fat, napkinlike ties of the 1960s. This makes tying a small, elegant knot more difficult. Yet the relationship of a tie's knot to the shirt collar is an important consideration. If the relationship is proper, the knot will never be so large that it spreads the collar or forces it open, nor will it be so small that it will become lost in the collar. Standard neckties come in lengths anywhere from 52 to 58 inches long. Taller men, or those who use a Windsor knot, may require a longer tie, which can be special-ordered. After being tied, the tips of the necktie should be long enough to reach the waistband of the trousers. (The ends of the tie should either be equal, or the smaller one just a fraction shorter.) After you've confirmed the appropriateness of a tie's shape, next feel the fabric. If it's made of silk and it feels rough to the touch, then the silk is of an inferior quality. Silk that is not supple is very much like hair that's been dyed too often. It's brittle and its ends will fray easily. If care hasn't been taken in the inspection of ties, you may find misweaves and puckers. All fine ties are cut on the bias, which means they have been cut across the fabric. This allows them to fall straight after the knot has been tied, without curling. A simple test consists of holding a tie across you hand. If it begins to twirl in the air, it was probably not cut on the bias and it should not be purchased. Quality neckties want you to see everything: they have nothing to hide. Originally, neckties were cut from a single large square of silk, which was then folded seven times in order to give the tie a rich fullness. Today the price of silk and the lack of skilled artisans prohibits this form of manufacture. Ties now derive their body and fullness by means of an additional inner lining. Besides giving body to the tie, the lining helps the tie hold its shape. The finest-quality ties today are lined with 100 percent wool and are generally made only in Europe. Most other quality ties use a wool mixture. The finer the tie, the higher the wool content. You can actually check. Fine linings are marked with a series of gold bars which are visible if you open up the back of the tie. The more bars, the heavier the lining. Many people assume that a quality tie must be thick, as this would suggest that the silk is heavy and therefore expensive. In fact, in most cases it is simply the insertion of a heavier lining that gives the tie this bulk. Be sure, then, that the bulk of the tie that you're feeling is the silk outer fabric and not the lining. After you've examined the lining, take a look at the tie just above the spot where the two sides come together to form an inverted V. In most quality ties, you will find a stitch joining the back flaps. This is called the bar tack, and it helps maintain the shape of the tie. Now, if you can, open up the tie as far as possible and look for a loose black thread. This thread is called the slip stitch and was invented by a man named Joss Langsdorf in the 1920s to give added resilience to the tie. The fact that the tie can move along this thread means that it won't rip when it's being wrapped tightly around your neck, and that it will, when removed, return to its original shape. Pull the slip stitch, and the tie should gather. If you can do this, you've found a quality, handmade tie. Finally, take the tie in your hand and run your finger down its length. You should find three separate pieces of fabric stitched together, not two, as in most commercial ties. This construction is used to help the tie conform easily to the neck. Copyright and disclaimer © 1996-2000, Thetie. com, inc.[This message has been edited by Linda Sutton (edited January 20, 2001).]
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Re: Worship & Clothing
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01/21/01 08:37 PM
01/21/01 08:37 PM
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All that just so we can strangle ourselves. [sigh] ------------------ What is popular is not always right. What is right is not always popular.
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Re: Worship & Clothing
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01/22/01 01:21 AM
01/22/01 01:21 AM
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Then, why are we letting worldly fashions such as the necktie control us? __________________________ In His Love, Mercy & Grace Daryl
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